Anger

I was angry with my friend;
I told my wrath,
my wrath did end.
I was angry with my foe:
I told it not,
my wrath did grow.

William Blake

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Anger is much more bearable
than
what lies beneath it.

Dr. Philip Manfield

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Anger is a signal,
and one worth listening to.

—Harriet Lerner

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The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth.

—African proverb

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Don’t push me
‘cause I’m close to the edge.

The Message

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Keep your temper,
said the Caterpillar.

Alice's Adventures in Wonderland

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Beware the wrath of a patient man.

―John Dryden

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Shout
Shout
Let it all out

Tears For Fears

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A riot is the language of the unheard.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

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a lot of times
we are angry at other people
for not doing
what we should have done
for ourselves

rupi kaur

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At the core of all anger is a need that is not being fulfilled.

—Marshall Rosenberg

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The releasing of anger
can better any medicine
under the sun.

—Pantera

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Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.

—Confucius

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Beneath every complaint is a wish.

—Esther Perel

Poem: Harlem

Poem: On Anger

Poem: Untethered

Poem: I Am That, Too

Poem: Invisible Woman, Dancing

Poem: Fuck Your Lecture on Craft, My People Are Dying

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—Anger practices & skills—

Now Matters Now skills

STOP skill

Anger plank skill

Anger release through tension & relaxation skill

TIP skill

Pros & Cons skill

Cold water skill

Urge surf skill

Opposite action skill

Distress tolerance skills

Emotion regulation skills

Interpersonal effectiveness skills

DBT skills

Noticing, feeling, needing, wondering practice

Values-based action practice

Remote control practice

RAIN practice: What is this anger?

Wise/unwise impulse practice

Notice, regulate, respond 3-step practice

Safety Plan

Holistic/wellness checklist

Join a peer support meeting

My go-to peeps practice

If you really knew me practice

Go-to practices, skills & resources

I need help now

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Ned gets mad

City of New York vs Homer

Move Through Anger: 10-Minute Somatic Freestyle Dance Practice

The Alchemy of Anger

Anger styles

Anger iceberg

FIRE

Multidimensional anger test

Clinical anger test

10 tips to tame your temper

On anger management

Anger management skills

Anger warning signs

Anger stop signs

Anger coping skills

Anger diary

The cycle of anger

Anger thermometer

When is anger a problem?

Anger discussion questions

Anger management skill cards

The wisdom of anger

Love and Rage

Guitar smash

Blow up the outside world

Resource Friday

Rage Room

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Angry songs

Music can help metabolize powerful emotions such as anger and rage in lieu of acting out unwise impulses. What are some of your go-to angry songs?Note: Discretion and self-care advised in exploring the following, some of which may not be appropriate for everyone.

The Great Southern Trendkill

A New Level

Mouth for War

Strength Beyond Strength

25 Years

Harvester of Sorrow

Battery

Damage, Inc

Raining Blood

Jesus Christ Pose

New Damage

I Awake

Fistful of Steel

The Money Will Roll Right In

Paper Cuts

Milk It

Aneurysm

D-7

All My Life

Institutionalized

My Own Summer

Repeater

Five Year Plan

Redline

My Unsaid Everything

Dementia

Pain Devine

Enshrined By Grace

Earth A.D.

Gave Up

Falling Away From Me

Freak on a Leash

Shout

Shout

Bring Da Ruckus

Phony Rappers

Runnin’ (Dying to Live)

Wicked

STUPID

Needed Me

Violet

God

Hymn

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Note: The following pieces are satirical, humorous & absurd. They are intended to bring a sense of levity & lightness for when life feels beyond frustrating; they may not be appropriate for everyone.

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New Study Confirms Sharks Just Really Angry Dolphins

New Anger-Powered Cars May Revolutionize The Way We Drive

Man Announces Plan To Take Out Anger On First Less Powerful Person He Sees

Father Apologizes For Taking Out Anger On Wrong Son

Man Now Too Exhausted To Repress Both Anger And Sadness

Man Really Only Joined Angry Mob To Show Off Fancy New Torch

Study Links Binge Eating To Stress, Contentment, Depression, Joy, Boredom, Anger, Relaxation

Smiling Now Primarily Used To Communicate Anger

How To Channel Your Road Rage Into Cold, Calculating Road Revenge

Study Finds Expressing Anger In Unhealthy Ways Actually Incredibly Satisfying

Extremely Effective Therapist Just Lets Patients Beat Shit Out Of Him For 45 Minutes

Wildfire Somehow Rages Back Into Control